Giving fruit when handed poop

So I have been wanting to share this story and encouragement with you, but truthfully I was having a hard time finding where to put the encouragement at.  Let me tell you the story.  

To the side is my daughter, who at the time was about 20 months old.  She loves being a 'good' helper!  In the summer, she is outside constantly and I just let the doors open so I can track her by sound because we are in, out, and everywhere (we live out in country).  I was so excited because I was getting dishes done and I could see her playing in the garage from my window and my 4 month was napping, when I hear - nothing!  Insert dramatic music, da-da-daaa!  Then I hear something very light and then nothing again!  Every mom in the world knows, nothing means something!  So I go to the garage and what do I see but her attempting to feed the cat, if that is what you call it!  There is cat food throughout the entire 2 bay garage with a cat and dog looking like they hit the jackpot.  So I explain to her we do not put cat food on the floor like that we put it in the dish and the kitty has enough food now to last a week.  After naps, we go outside again and she goes on her adventures again and I hear what I assume to be a lid and what to my wondering eyes should appear when I round the corner of the garage with the baby, but CAT FOOD scattered all over the garage again.  A little smaller containment area this time.  She was suppose to be getting toys but the cat must have looked hungry, I'm guessing, and that I have the world's strongest 1 year old that can open up the cat food tub with a flick of a finger and I have wrestle it.

 

Now this Mommy is getting a little tired of this game and add in a grouchy 4 month old.   I reclean everything back up, again, and make sure the lid is on super tight, again, and redistract her, again!  We are playing having a wonderful day only catching slight whiffs of cat food in the air from touching it some many times during the day.  

Later in the day, it is getting close to supper time so I run in the house to get a few of the items cooking when I hear a crash!  Another sound a mom doesn't want to hear, but no crying!  I blunder out to the garage again, and what to my wondering eyes does appear this time, but my daughter holding CAT POOP!!! 

Yes, you heard me right, she is holding cat poop!!!! She was trying to ride her tricycle around the garage when she crashed into the cat liter and cat food and upset them both!! That is my best guess from my crash reconstruction!  I started to lose my cool because how in the world does this happen?!  We have an entire garage and porch and she finds the 5 ft square area to crash a bike and not only stop but keep going to make the mess to its fullest degree!  And then decide out of everything to clean up, the cat poop!!! After 2 sentences into losing my cool, I stopped, it definitely was not by own power, but God reminding me she is only a child!  The devotion I had read earlier in the week came back to me reminding me that you should not get upset over things that kids don't understand, you need to teach them.  My daughter did not completely understand, but she did know it would upset me so she began trying to clean it up, even if that consisted of picking up -cat poop! 

I wish I could say I didn't lose my temper at all but I did!  I have been praying about what verse I could even try to tie into this and this is what I got -

No matter what type of day you are handed, whether it is a handful of dandelions or a handful of cat poop, you need to give and show the fruits of the spirit ~ love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.  This does not mean you, and definitely not me, will ever not lose our temper again, trust me I will be the first to admit I fail at this wayyyyy to many times, but we need to pray that we can show these fruits not just in the happy  times but also in the frustrating times!  

Just remember this is something you can laugh at and tell years to come!  Good luck mommies, I will be praying for you! 

^"22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, ²³ gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law." Galatians 5:22-23

Cool Whip Frosting

Ah sweets, oh how I enjoy them!  However, I am picky about my icing!  I really don't like super sweet icing, I like cool whip flavored icing!  I mean, I really like the cool whip icing!!! But trying to find the right recipe, I just haven't found one yet the just hit the taste buds.  So I decided to combine recipes and wa-la, SUPER hit!  Yeah!! I made the cake Saturday night and that is all that is left as of Sunday afternoon!  And it is super easy!!!  The cake is a strawberry jello poke cake which I love because it is so moist! 

Frosting:
1 tub cool whip, the smaller tub
1/2 cup powdered sugar
1 tsp vanilla
3 oz cream cheese (I decided to make this cake last minute so I used the spreadable cream cheese and I would definitely do that again, I used about half of the 8 oz container.)

Whip all the ingredients together and put on top of your cake.  I left mine in the refrigerator for a little while which I think made it better.  Enjoy!! 

Super Yummy Fast Omelet

So I have been soooo hungry for an omelet but I have never made one, I know that might sound strange but hey, it happens, and if I do decide to try to make one I never have enough eggs or half the ingredients they call for.  BUT lo and behold, I found the perfect recipe, and I only tweaked it a little bit.  And it is husband tested super approved!

The recipe comes from IHOP.

1 tbsp butter
1/4  cup diced yellow onion
1/4 cup diced green pepper (I always use the saying 3 to eat, 4 to cook, that is how many bumps they have on the bottom, so a 4 bump bottom is better to cook with here)
3 or 4 eggs, beaten
2 tbsp water
1/4 tsp salt
1 tsp vegetable oil if not using nonstick cooking spray
1/4 cup diced tomato
1/4 cup bacon (I never have bacon on hand already cooked so I buy the bacon pieces which is by the bacon bits in the store.)
3/4 cup shredded cheddar cheese

1. In a medium-low heat, melt butter and add the onion and green pepper.  I find it easier to dice all my veggies before hand because once you start the process it is pretty quick.
2. Stir until the onion and pepper are soft but not browned, this will take a couple minutes.  I like mine to still be a little crunchy so I probably cook them for about 3 minutes maybe a little more.
3.  Remove peppers and onions from heat and begin to heat a 12 inch skill over medium low heat, add oil or spray nonstick cooking spray.
4.  In a mixing bowl, combine eggs, water, and salt, beat or stir well.
5. Pour the egg mixture into the pan and sprinkle with the vegetable mixture, tomato if desired, bacon, and 1/2 cup of cheese.
6.  Cover the pan until the omelet starts to set, 2 to 3 minutes.
7. Immediately remove the lid and fold the omelet from the sides to the middle or in half.  Sprinnkle with the rest of the cheese and cover for about 30 seconds to minute for the cheese to melt.
8.  Enjoy!

The recipe also has sausage, ham, and roast beef you can add but I was looking for something super quick.

The Steps Pinterest Forgets

So the other week I thought I would attempt a Pinterest craft.  Ha, I know some of you are laughing already because you have been there.  You see it, think I can do that, read the directions, seems simple, pin it, attempt it, and wonder where in the world you went wrong when you see the end product that looks like a kindergartener did it.  Been there many, many times!  Anywho, I thought I would try to create a photo cube.   I read many how-to articles and it seemed easy enough.  First step was buy the rubik's cube, and I am not buying an expensive one, I like to save money, and I really like the Dollar Tree so after going to an extra store and and extra round of unbuckling and rebuckling a just turned 2 yr old and 8 month old, I got the rubik's cube and pictures and saved $18, wahoo!  Step two, peel off all the stickers, not a hard feat I thought, until you realize how many stickers are on a rubiks's cube and I have a limited amount of 'free time' aka time without too much help.  Just so you know there are 108 stickers total on 2 rubik's cube.  Step three, get your 8 month old up from his nap.  Step four, wrestle your 8 month old away from pile of stickers.  Step five, get your 2 yr old up.  Step six, try to clean up the stickers while your 8 month tries to eat them. Step seven, give up wrestling and put him in his high chair so you can finish cleaning and pulling off the last 5 stickers. Step eight, listen to your 8 month old scream, then see less stickers then you think so you do finger sweeps trying to rescue stickers you are pretty sure he ate.  Step nine, finish cleaning up stickers and anything else he might eat while answering 'what's that' from your 2 year old while your 8 month old is still screaming.  Pinterest seemed to forget those steps.  So I attempted this project later and did get it finished and walked away with only a good cut on my finger from cutting the photos on the cube.  However, this is where step ten comes a few days later.  We were at my grandparents house for Christmas and my son had a poopy diaper so I go back to change him, open up the diaper, and SURPRISE, step ten, 2 brightly colored green stickers that traveled from the rubik's cube through my son's mouth and digestive track straight to the diaper.  I couldn't stop laughing and made my husband look who smiled, I think just appease my laughing, but didn't find this nearly as funny as I did.  

Needless to say you could take a lot of lessons away from this, but I like to tie a little encouragement in there for any of you mommy's who need some.  God wants us to be a light to others, be that bright spot because you might be the only example of God's love that they see in a poopy day, just like those stickers were the only bright thing to see in that diaper and every diaper since, thank goodness!  So put that pretty smile on ladies and show some love to yourself, others, and God.  The other lesson I learned, Pinterest seems to forgot the steps of being a mom and trying to accomplish the crafts. 

 “You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden.  Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house.  In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven."  Matthew 5:14-16

The Superpower of Syrup

      I truly don't think you know the true power of syrup until you have children.  Husbands are a great start and I love mine dearly, but he only slightly opened my eyes to how syrup ends up everywhere.  From the not letting the syrup finishing dripping close the lid technique or the tip it up before its done pouring, I thought I had truly seen everything.  Somewhere between having two small children and a husband, and of course myself at times, I have truly come to appreciate the super power of how truly sticky syrup can be.  A few months ago I let my daughter have syrup on her waffles, she is 2 and it always ends up in the surrounding areas of her seat before she is done.  Now add in my 5 month old son at the time who is contained to his high chair and may I remind you my daughter is contained to her booster seat.  Somehow with the many feet between them she gets syrup on him, and this is where the truly amazing thing happens with syrup and children - it ends up everywhere!  From the few droplets you let on your child's plate it transfers/hops/flies, I'm not exactly sure how syrup travels, from the plate to the child to the table, flies to my son to his hair to the tray to his hands, leaps to my forearm the kitchen island the counter behind the island and about 10 other places before I believe I have it all cleaned up.  Who knows, there is probably still a trail of it somewhere and we have had many waffles since then so I am sure our house is a sticky mess, but you have to sit back and laugh in amazement at how a simple breakfast add in kids and syrup equals wipe downs of them, you, the kitchen and of the course the dishes.  I don't want  to and I don't want you to be a Martha when someone comes to visit, to busy cleaning, instead of taking time to see Jesus.  We were given these children as blessings, who cares about a little syrup on the floor or wherever, you were making memories! So when you come to visit, please don't feel alarmed when you step in something sticky just know the superpower of syrup came to visit and left us with smiles and laughs.

³⁸ As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. ³⁹ She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said. ⁴⁰ But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!”  ⁴¹ “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, ⁴² but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”  Luke 10:38-42
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